Happiness
A couple of things about happiness, for shaun and all humans in general.
-One will usually not be happy thinking about happiness(This post is making me unhappy), and happiness rarely comes to those who search for it. Instead, it is spontaneous and hits u randomly when ur not searching for it.
-It has very little to do with pleasure. People who get laid alot especially by many chics are rarely happy. So don't try to be a playboy, u may look cool or think ur cool(shorn), but ur life will be crap. Also, drugs make u think ur happy(shorn) when it just drags u down more. Don't get me wrong, pleasure isnt all bad but don't get into the wrong kind of pleasure.
-You can only be happy if you let urself be. People who r pessimistic and think alot tend be get more and more unhappy because they realise the truth, that life is one big pile of crap with some short peaks of happiness. So don't think, accept. Ie. Accept that you are happy alone, and you will be. But I guess it might be slightly more difficult for guys coz we need to get laid or we go strange (like dave, who waits for hrs for chicks to spontaneously appear before him). Happiness is not pleasure or joy, and it is not the absence of sadness or pain.
-Happiness is comparative in nature. People going through a period of sadness is a lot more prone to happiness afterwards then people who get everything they wants and gets constant short bursts of happiness. (rich=suicidal/unhappy | poor=happy). This applies especially to people who've had near death experiences. Extreme shock, pain and regret is a great motivator.
and if i type anymore u ppl will complain it's too long so i'll stop here. Oh and justins party was good, but I can't say it was better than it used to be. People have become more mature and hence boring.
edit: Yes, and having a partner in happiness increases that happiness and also gives you other routes to ur happiness. Therefor, it's easier to be happy if u have a gf/wife. But of course, it also gives u other routes to sadness so double edged sword there -credit to ryno here
-One will usually not be happy thinking about happiness(This post is making me unhappy), and happiness rarely comes to those who search for it. Instead, it is spontaneous and hits u randomly when ur not searching for it.
-It has very little to do with pleasure. People who get laid alot especially by many chics are rarely happy. So don't try to be a playboy, u may look cool or think ur cool(shorn), but ur life will be crap. Also, drugs make u think ur happy(shorn) when it just drags u down more. Don't get me wrong, pleasure isnt all bad but don't get into the wrong kind of pleasure.
-You can only be happy if you let urself be. People who r pessimistic and think alot tend be get more and more unhappy because they realise the truth, that life is one big pile of crap with some short peaks of happiness. So don't think, accept. Ie. Accept that you are happy alone, and you will be. But I guess it might be slightly more difficult for guys coz we need to get laid or we go strange (like dave, who waits for hrs for chicks to spontaneously appear before him). Happiness is not pleasure or joy, and it is not the absence of sadness or pain.
-Happiness is comparative in nature. People going through a period of sadness is a lot more prone to happiness afterwards then people who get everything they wants and gets constant short bursts of happiness. (rich=suicidal/unhappy | poor=happy). This applies especially to people who've had near death experiences. Extreme shock, pain and regret is a great motivator.
and if i type anymore u ppl will complain it's too long so i'll stop here. Oh and justins party was good, but I can't say it was better than it used to be. People have become more mature and hence boring.
edit: Yes, and having a partner in happiness increases that happiness and also gives you other routes to ur happiness. Therefor, it's easier to be happy if u have a gf/wife. But of course, it also gives u other routes to sadness so double edged sword there -credit to ryno here
posted by Anonymous at 11:23 am
7 Comments:
haha ur so da. do i get ne credit for ne of wot u jus typed ther?
nope. u didnt say anything. U just sed ofcourse this. and of course that. then mocked me. and i only talkd to u about the comparative bit. so shutup and go away.
According the scientific research, the single thing most likely to make someone happier in the long term is being married, believe it or not.
Also, most people have a base level of happiness that they drift back towards after a high or low, and that can't really be changed. ie some people are naturally happier than others in general.
hahahaahah yes i love this post, so true i think i'll go get married because i'm getting bored and unhappy.
Nice post though tony
well not unhappy as such just, less happy then i was previously.
I wish i had no worries in the world, like when i was just born, just eat sleep and shit.
But then again thats what i do now but life is just more complicated
ahhaahhaha yeah i hate no one, what ever noob ahhaahahha.
you always contradict yourself, love is all that matters yeah that is why you are after 3 girls hahaha.
But yeah i agree with the happy thing, unless you are drunk and you think everyone hates you if they bag you LOL.
haahhaah jokin shauny, but try not to lie through your teeth so much, becuase we know you toooooo well...
and now you hate me, so theory proven LOL
yeah that was a bit malitious but yeah it is well called for.
and yes full report from ryan is to be expected... am egarly awaiting for news of success, goooooo ryan.
still recon you should grow a fukin beard, that way you would already have her in bed.
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